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Deirdre Leighton

Shadows of Self-doubt, Unworthiness: Garnet’s Journey to Mental Wellness

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When you start to embark on the complex journey to mental well-being, you may feel like you are navigating a labyrinth of emotions—fear, anxiety, stress, and past traumas that metaphorically are casting shadows of self-doubt, unworthiness, lack of purpose on the path.

The journey becomes a delicate dance of moving forward through healing. In my day-to-day practice I have found that hypnotherapy emerges as a gentle guide, a path to orchestrating a transformative symphony of self-discovery. Let me share my insights as we “dance” through the eyes of Garnet —a real-life example where hypnotherapy became the key to unlocking the gates of empowerment. As we explore her journey, metaphors will serve as poignant symbols, highlighting the profound messages carried in the therapeutic dance. (Note: Garnet is a fictitious name used to conceal personal information and identity.)

Garnet’s Journey: From Shadows to Light

Garnet’s story begins in the shadows of paralyzing anxiety, a consequence of a traumatic incident that lingered for years in the recesses of her mind. Garnet has sought out traditional therapy which provided some relief, but she was still left with this feeling of anxiety when certain circumstances or situations arose. At times it was so paralyzing she was unable to get out of bed. I first worked with Garnet in a Reiki session to introduce the calming effects it can bring forth. We then had a deep conversation around the conscious mind and the subconscious mind and how we store beliefs, traumas, and old patterns. It was this discussion that guided her decision to try hypnotherapy. Her words were “this process allowed me to see how to over come the paralyzing anxiety and empowed myself to see things differently.”

The Sculptor’s Touch

In using the power of metaphor Garnet was able to draw inspiration from the story of a sculptor shaping clay in the therapeutic process described in “Clay Work and Body Image in Art Therapy: Using Metaphor and Symbolism to Heal”  (Crocker, Trisha & Carr, Susan. 2021). We worked together to bring forth her creative consciousness which became the skilled sculptor of her subconscious. Through the visualization of touch both delicate and compassionate, each session was a chance for Garnet to reshape the narrative of her experiences. In this way the sculptor’s (Garnet’s) touch served as a metaphor for her to remodel the paralyzing perception of herself and her past.

The Symphony of Self-Discovery

Much like one could call a “therapeutic symphony” Garnet was now able to start a new journey which unfolded as a mesmerizing composition of self-discovery. Another metaphor that draws inspiration from the symphony presented in the “Metaphors of the Orchestra–The Orchestra as a Metaphor.” (Spitzer, J. 1996). This article helped to underscore each note played by the therapist, every guided meditation, and relaxation technique became a chord in the symphony that resonated within her. She was able to use these transformative melodies orchestrated by hypnotherapy to harmonize with Garnet’s inner rhythm. A process that was now able to unlock the doors of strength and resilience she had never been able to explore. This symphony of self-discovery metaphorically portrayed her therapeutic journey as an orchestration of self-empowerment.

The Garden of Empowerment

Garnet continued her therapeutic dance, as the metaphorical garden of self-empowerment bloomed within her subconscious. Inspired by the metaphor of a garden in the “Sensory Stimulation & Metaphors in the Garden” (Daniela Silva-Rodriguez Bonazzi. 2019), where the therapist cultivated an environment in which the blossoms of self-empowerment could flourish. The importance of trust, faith and self-confidence were delicate shoots and needed to be tended to with care: water, sun, fertilization or self-compassion, love and understanding. Using the garden of self-empowerment metaphor encapsulates a transformative process, where the seeds of resilience were sown, and Garnet found herself standing amidst a garden of the most vibrant hues of newfound strength and wisdom.

A Symphony of Empowerment

In sharing Garnet’s story to self-empowerment and awareness, it becomes evident that empowerment is the crescendo of this therapeutic symphony conducted through the power of hypnotherapy. The sculptor’s touch, the symphony of self-discovery, and the garden of self-empowerment collectively worked to paint a canvas where Garnet could emerge from the shadows into the light of her own strength and personal well-being.

I hope that you can celebrate in Garnet’s journey, and let her story be a testament to the profound impact hypnotherapy can have on unlocking the gates of self-empowerment. Not all clients experience such a therapeutic dance, rich with metaphors. But they can use the power of metaphor to become a guiding force—like a transformative symphony that echoes the possibilities of self-discovery, resilience, and the reclaiming of personal strength. May Garnet’s tale inspire those navigating their own labyrinth of fear and anxiety to consider the transformative power of hypnotherapy as a key to unlocking the path to self-empowerment on their journey to mental health and wellness.

Blessings: Deirdre

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6 Beneficial Grounding and Clearing Techniques for Everyone

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In today’s chaotic world and challenging times, individuals are often finding themselves struggling. Being able to use beneficial grounding and clearing techniques will help manage financial, physical, emotional and spiritual challenges such as, emotional overwhelm, feelings of lostness, ungroundedness or even those imposed upon you from the intense ‘outside’ global ongoings. War, famine, hate, persecution to name a few.

Studies have shown us that to be effective in one’s spiritual growth and healing, a practice of being centered, grounded and clear is crucial. It has become imperative for practitioners and individuals to learn techniques that can support a healthy balance of the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies. To be centered (grounded) is a way to protect ourselves against overwhelm, negative draining energies, and other peoples’ ‘stuff’.

These practices, I am about to share, help you to stay present in the moment. For instance, to Ground is similar to having a tether from you and your energy to Mother Earth, and can provide a sense of stability, balance, and protection. Practitioners, in particular, benefit from grounding as it enables them to differentiate between their own energy and that of their clients. The process of Clearing is the letting go of energies that are not your own or that are not suiting your highest purpose at this time, assisting in developing resistant to the energies of overwhelm, and drain. When practiced daily you may find that you have a more focused and clear process of thought.

The following techniques are part of my daily grounding and clearing routines. By walking you through their processes I hope to bring you a moment of empowerment and self-realization.

1: Grounding or Rooting Visualization

This powerful visualization allows you to feel Mother Earth’s stability and support. Before embarking on a challenging task, find a comfortable, quiet space to rest and start this visualization.

Close your eyes, and take in a few deep breaths, directing your attention inward. In this quiet space, visualize or imagine roots sprouting from the base of your spine or the soles of your feet, extending deep into Mother Earth, reaching the core.

Now as you to visualize any excess or foreign energies flowing down allow it to release through these roots, leaving you cleansed and balanced. And when you feel clear, gently draw up the nurturing and stabilizing energy from Mother Earth through your envisioned roots, filling your entire being with this nurturing energy.

This technique sets a clear intention for your day, affirming that you are grounded, protected, and ready to conquer challenges.

2: Physical Grounding

This technique not only establishes a tangible connection with Mother Earth but also encourages a moment of mindful breathing. Practice when feeling overwhelm or out of control to physically ground and bring your awareness into center. Helping you to regain control over the situation.

Begin by standing barefoot on a natural surface, such as grass, soil or sand. As you focus on the sensation of your feet touching the ground, shift your attention to your body, feeling the reassuring weight of your ‘being’ being supported by Mother Earth. Visualize a connection of you and the earth beneath you. Then, breathe, slow rhythmic breaths, visualizing your excess energy releasing, even if you do not know what that may be, into Mother Earth. You may wish to count your breaths: count of 3 in, hold for count of 3, and release for count of 3.

Notice that connection to Mother Earth and the calming energies flowing through you, notice the breath, the flow, to and from Mother Earth, balancing, grounding, and clearing you.

3: Work with Natures Grounding Crystals / Stones

Popular grounding crystals like black tourmaline, hematite, or smoky quartz can be excellent companions for grounding and clearing energies. I have also found using stones such as moss agate, black obsidian and shungite, amplifies these clearing and grounding techniques.

The practice of selecting a grounding crystal or stone varies for each individual. I suggest you hold it in your dominant hand and place this hand against your heart. Notice how you feel or notice if you are being pushed away or pulled forward. Pushing away indicates this crystal may not be ideal for you. Being pulled forward indicates a good connection with its’ energies.

To use the crystal simply hold or place it nearby and invite the grounding energies into your space. You may wish to close your eyes and connect with the crystal, envisioning its grounding properties enveloping you. Continue the visualization as the energy merges seamlessly with your own, imparting balance, stability and grounding.

Finally taking a moment of gratitude to express thanks to the crystal for its invaluable support.

4. Heart-Centered Exercise

This exercise aims to shift your focus from the mentalism’s of the mind and ground you in the heart center, the place of pure love and compassionate energy.

You begin by closing your eyes and drawing a deep relaxing breath. Then while you continue breathing at your normal rhythm, imagine or visualize a radiant ball of energy, platinum or silver-white, hovering weightlessly just above the crown of your head. Slowly, envision this ball descending, gently down through the crown, passing behind your eyes, your nose, your mouth, allowing it to come to rest just above your heart center. Take in a breath and experience the pureness of this platinum ball of energy. Now, gently imagine that your physical eyes are moving into this ball. Through these eyes allow yourself to perceive your surroundings, Notice what you ‘see’ – knowing that you can experience a 360’ view of your world without using your own eyes or moving your head.

Next, allow your physical ears to enter the ball, your sense of hearing. And, notice that it is as though you can truly hear from just over your heart. Listen, what do you hear? 95% of all communication is nonverbal nonphysical, so listen to the subtilties of truth and compassion.

Now, take a moment to imagine your senses of touch, taste, and smell within the platinum ball, experiencing the world through these senses. What do you sense? How does it feel?

Finally, move your mouth into this ball and give it the ability to speak. It is as if your own voice emanates from deep within your chest, just above your heart center. What does this voice of wisdom, purity, love, and compassion have to offer or say from your heart. Now, rest with this for a moment or two until you feel complete, then open your eyes.

5. Clearing the Fields of Energy

Clearing your biofield is recommended daily technique to release and let go of any errant energies that are not serving you. This simple exercise is most powerful when you tune in and allow you intuition to guide your intention and let go.

We begin by you closing your eyes and visualizing or imagining a gentle mist of rain, like a shower of silver droplets descending from a beautiful waterfall. Breathe in as you feel this soft gentle mist as cleansing droplets touching your crown, then expanding into a purifying shower.

Now, visualize the mist descending and gliding off your body, carrying away with it any negativity or external energies. Releasing those which are ready to be released. Even if you do not understand the nature of these energies, allow them to flow effortlessly into Mother Earth.

Breathe in and sense the energy of the sacred feminine principle, allowing you to continue to release and let go, as the mist magnetically pulls any remnant energies out, leaving your cells, molecules, and atoms feeling clear and refreshed.

When you feel complete, you can open your eyes.

6. Clearing the Mind

As with other clearing techniques, clearing the mind is just as important as clearing the body of unneeded or negative energies. Keeping the mind clear of thoughts that are no longer serving you is a beneficial part of letting go.

In this technique I ask you to close your eyes and imagine the image of a comb, similar to that of a sweeping hand. Now with this image in mind gently move or sweep through your thoughts, gently capturing and removing unhelpful thoughts, discordant thinking, doubts, and fears.

The practice of this technique frees your mind from unnecessary clutter we often hold, allowing you to approach your daily life with a clearer perspective. You may wish to repeat this combing action three times as to thoroughly cleanse your mind, of errant thoughts even those thoughts you might not fully understand. And, when you feel complete you may open your eyes.

Final Words

In the end, understanding the importance of grounding and clearing techniques is paramount. These practices are the keys to maintaining balance and being present in the moment. By incorporating one or more of them into your daily routine, you can create a welcoming and nurturing safe space for both you and those around you. The practices empower you to channel healing energy effectively while remaining grounded, centered, and protected. Whether you are preparing for an energy session or simply seeking to enhance your daily life, these techniques are a valuable addition to your toolkit. Remember, it is not only about staying connected to Mother Earth; it is about staying balanced as you connect. Balanced with your inner self and those you aim to help. So, embrace these techniques and explore the transformative power of being rooted in the heart-centered work of Energy Medicine and Energy Psychology.

A PDF gift: Clearing and Grounding Techniques

Blessings Deirdre

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Why Kick the Smoking Habit

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We all understand to kick the smoking habit is a powerful move towards a healthier life. But many struggle with this and feel that kicking the habit is something they just can not do alone. Why? Because it is more than just ditching cigarettes. It is about understanding the process and taking an integrated approach that not only boosts your physical well-being but also nurtures emotional and mental healing. When we dive into three compelling reasons on why being ‘smoke-free’ and review three powerful tools to aid anyone in their journey we can observe smoking cessation as a significant game-changer.

Three impactful reasons to become Smoke-Free:

1. Health and Wellness:

Let us talk science. Today there is overwhelming evidence that giving up smoking is a life-changer for your health. We are talking about the big health issues: lung cancer, heart disease, and all those respiratory issues. Research shows that cigarettes are a key player in these health issues. In fact, about 85% of lung cancer cases are directly tied to smoking. Why? Because smoking causes genetic changes in the cells of the lungs that lead to the development of lung cancer. If that is not a reason to quit, what is?

And it is not just about the lungs, smoking is also the villain behind heart disease. It messes with your heart and blood vessels, setting you up for possible heart attacks and strokes. No thank you!

Oh, and let us not forget about the breathing problems – chronic bronchitis and emphysema, for instance. Smoking can be to blame there as well.

Thus, quitting is not just about ‘lighting up’ to a healthier future. it is about promoting positive mental health, emotional awareness, self-empowerment and amplified healing of old beliefs and emotional wounds.

2. Improved Emotional Well-being:

When it comes to our emotional and mental well-being, we believe smoking gives us relief. But let us get real; smoking unfortunately does the opposite as when the cigarette is finished the moment of relief is gone and that stress and trauma is still there. It is a double-edged sword. Sure, it might give you a momentary escape from life’s challenges, but it does not really deal with the emotional stuff. In fact, it can make things worse by hooking you into a nicotine addiction.

3. Financial Freedom:

And to not look at the fact that smoking is expensive would be misleading. Most Canadian smokers are probably spending $12 plus taxes per pack. And some are smoking more than one pack per day. Over the course of seven days that could accumulate to $168 plus. Imagine what you could do with that money if it were not going up in smoke!

Quitting smoking opens doors to all sorts of financial possibilities. Imagine it: that dream trip, a sweet new vehicle, getting rid of or lowering debt. Maybe even having a rainy-day fund. Crunching the numbers on your potential savings can be super motivating. Plus, this newfound financial freedom can reduce the mental and emotional stress around money, there fore relieving monetary anxiety. Cha-ching!

Three Tools to Help in the Journey:

1. Meditation and Mindfulness:

Trying meditation and mindfulness can help you manage cravings, chill out releasing stress, by connecting with your inner self. When you are on a mission to quit smoking, these practices are like your secret weapons.

Meditation brings you to a moment of inner peace where you can see those cravings without judgment. And that is a huge deal when it comes to stepping towards mastering those smoking triggers.

Mindfulness, on the other hand, helps you live in the now. It shifts your focus away from lighting up and towards making those healthier choices, boosting both self-awareness and empowerment.

2. Hypnotherapy:

During a hypnotherapy session, the therapist works with you to see what are the triggering factors that brought you to picking up that first cigarette. And why those imprinted beliefs are now keeping you as a smoker. In hypnosis you are working with the subconscious mind so that you can release or shift the old patterns and beliefs into new more beneficial ones.

For many individuals, smoking is far more than a nicotine craving; it is a perceived way to cope with emotions and stress. The Hypnotherapist works to assist you in seeing what is truly going on, finding the root cause for why you use cigarettes in this way. The process is a journey helping you see your smoking habit from a different perspective one that you can change.

3. Supportive Community:

When you are on your journey to quit smoking, remember you are not alone. Often, we underestimate the support network we have, which includes friends, family, co-workers, and other people who genuinely care about your success. They are all cheering for you from the sidelines, much like your personal backup singers, helping you reach those high notes.

At times, a simple breath and reaching out to a friend or family member can be a lifeline during tough moments. A brief conversation, a few words of encouragement, and their understanding can be a game-changer. Building a circle of supportive individuals is more than just practical help; it also lightens the emotional load of quitting. Do not hesitate to connect with them!

Final Thoughts:

Giving up cigarettes, becoming smoke free is about changing the habit or belief. Quitting smoking is not only about quitting; it is about healing. It is about healing old emotional wounds and saying, “I love myself enough to do this.” it is a profound act of self-love and self-care. A ticket to be in control and to have emotional resilience over your life. Smoking Cessation is not just about getting healthier; it is about living a happier, more fulfilling life.

If you feel you are needing help in becoming Smoke Free reach out, I would love to chat about what we can do together to make it happen. Book Now!

Blessings Deirdre

Bringing About the Shift

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Ever wondered “How can I just get through this day?”
“Why do I always feel so energetically stuck?”
“What is it that I need to change?”

Everyone has within them the ability to heal and the ability to “shift” their current (non-fulfilling) belief patterns into something positive and self-empowering.

Traci Sparling and Deirdre Leighton have teamed together to help participants find inner peace and self-love July 2015 Bringing About the Shiftthrough the use of self-empowering tools and techniques to bring about harmony and balance. Traci and Deirdre will lead individuals gently pushing them through the “non-fulfilling” belief patterns to find out who they truly are and that they represent beautiful luminous beings of Light and Love.

This fun filled workshop is about using our own personal gifts as tools to promote a positive transformation “Bringing About the Shift” of who we think we are to who we really are.  The day is filled with gentle thought provoking activities and breath work to assist and to bring forth the beauty of positive inner change. Each participant will be given the tools on how to allow and how to support personal spiritual growth to learn:
– that you are worthy of love
– that you have the inner power of self-love
– that you have an amazing voice to share
– that loving yourself allows you to love others
– and as you develop the gifts that you already have you will find self-empowerment

Come Join Us for the day, as we lead you through morning of Quantum Light Breath Meditation and an afternoon of studying your Wheel of Life. The day will close with group discussions, sharing and processing.

Heart Stones“What is waiting to emerge from you” ~ Michael Beckwith

“Calm mind brings inner strength and self-confindence, that’s so very important for good health” ~ Dalai Lama

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Meditation

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Meditation – Not what you think!

I regularly get asked “What is Meditation?” or hear the statement “I’ve tried meditating it is just too hard!”

walking meditationSo what is Meditation and why do people think it is so hard to do? To meditate is the act of one looking within, contemplation; such as a prayer, a thought or to reflect upon and/or to study. It is the quiet time when one connects to ones’ consciousness to reflect on an object, an item or a situation.

I believe Meditation allows the individual to find within the mind a place of peace and solitude, while promoting feelings of awareness of source energy, a connection to oneness. Additionally the action to do, to be in Meditation awakens your self-awareness of purity, love, harmlessness and compassion. It can take time to learn or to teach the mind to let go, to just allow whatever thoughts come, to simply float or drift away. Yet in practicing you are ultimately connecting with the unconscious mind, your spiritual consciousness and to the awareness of all that is.

When I instruct Meditation in a class or to individuals I first ask “What is it that they expect to gain from the process?” I then ask “What have they tried and what was the outcome of that experience?” An individual may use many different practices of meditation or various forms of a certain practice throughout their life. Whatever practice an individual chooses it should be one that allows them to be calm, sit or be in a comfortable position, and allow the breath to flow freely unrestricted by clothing or body discomfort.

Some practices of Meditation that I have experienced are –

Transcendental Meditation – a seated meditation that uses Mantras and Sanskrit phrases/words. It is practiced over the course of 15 – 20 a day to release day to day stress or deep rooted trauma thus calming the mind and the body.

Breathing Meditations – are  seated meditations that have the participant focus on the breath, the rhythm of the breath and deepness or lightness of the breath. Some practices are rapid breathing to release emotional trauma and issues, while others use quiet deliberate breathing techniques to calm the mind and body.

Walking Meditation – this is an action or movement meditation where the participant concentrates or focuses on the experience of the breath and the step. This meditation allows one to become more mindful of our experiences as we learn to stay present in our body and present in the moment.

Guided Meditation – the main component of a Guided Meditation is the voice of your guide, often leading the participant or guiding him/her into a state of relaxation and heart centered-ness. Guided Meditations can incorporate the use of sound such as earth sounds or primordial sounds, drums and those from nature to assist in a visualization process. The goal of this type of meditation is to help the individual find a calming and relaxing state of awareness where they can experience a quiet mind.

Other forms such as Yoga, Zen, Kundalini and Solitude, MeditationVipassana can also assist in promoting spiritual health, self-awareness, spiritual growth, positive  health benefits and a sense of well-being. I would suggest find a studio or practitioner who resonates with you and then try it out.

In the end there are many forms of Meditation and any of them can be a beneficial tool to help bring the Body, Mind and Spirit into balance and harmony. Meditation really isn’t what you think.