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Solitude

Dispelling the Myths Surrounding Solitude and Isolation

Let’s discuss the exploration of intentional solitude, its benefits, and the practical steps individuals can take to incorporate it into their lives for holistic well-being.

Intentional solitude is a deliberate choice to step away from the constant noise and demands of the external world. It is not an escape but rather a conscious effort to create a sacred space for self-reflection, personal growth, and the rediscovery of one’s inner self. In this era marked by incessant connectivity, intentional solitude becomes a valuable tool to navigate the complexities of daily life.

To fully appreciate the significance of intentional solitude, it’s crucial to recognize its distinction from isolation. While isolation implies being cut off from others due to external circumstances or internal struggles, intentional solitude is an initiative-taking decision to embrace aloneness as a transformative journey. It is about turning inward to listen to one’s own needs, aspirations, and fears without the interference of external influences.

Incorporating intentional solitude into one’s life involves a variety of practices that cater to the holistic well-being of the mind, body, and spirit. Mindfulness practices, such as yoga and meditation, offer effective ways to cultivate inner peace and awareness. These practices enable individuals to be present in the moment, fostering a deeper connection with themselves and their surroundings.

Engaging with nature is another powerful aspect of intentional solitude. Activities like hiking and swimming provide opportunities to immerse oneself in the natural world, promoting a sense of unity with the environment. Nature has a profound ability to heal and rejuvenate, making it a vital component of intentional solitude.

Your use of Reiki, Integrative Chakra Therapy, and Hypnotherapy as intentional practices further exemplifies the diverse approaches one can take on this transformative journey. These holistic therapies offer not only relaxation but also serve as tools for self-empowerment, helping individuals break free from the noise of external influences and reconnect with their inner selves.

By recognizing the signs of true isolation versus solitude, individuals can make informed choices that align with their well-being. Actively choosing connection, whether through social interactions, meaningful relationships, or engaging in activities that bring joy, adds another layer to the intentional solitude narrative. This integrated approach fosters a balance between solitude and connection, empowering individuals to navigate life’s challenges with resilience and self-awareness.

In the end, intentional solitude is a profound and purposeful journey inward, offering transformative benefits for mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Through mindfulness practices, nature engagement, and holistic therapies, individuals can embark on a holistic journey, breaking free from the chains of isolation and forging a path toward meaningful connections and profound self-awareness.

Blessings: Deirdre

Book Review: Rewire Your Anxious Brain

Unraveling Anxiety: An Integrated Journey

This book review was written for the Canadian Association of Counseling Hypnotherapists and Educators as part of on going continuing education and personal development. You can find the original article here: CACHE Resources

Note: For this book review, I looked to the authors’ concepts on how the anxious brain works and how I may seamlessly intertwine them with hypnotherapy.

Today I explore the transformative insights from Catherine M. Pittman and Elizabeth M. Karle’s book, ‘Rewire Your Anxious Brain’. An inviting book that guides readers on an integrative exploration of managing anxiety. Written from a neuroscience view point it dives in the reasoning and processes one can experience and learn to reduce fear and end anxiety. This book was delightfully an easy read – not full of unexplained scientific terminology but rather a normalized language, with easy-to-follow exercises and explanations.

In my journey, I dove with the authors into the intricate workings of the brain’s fear response, as they unraveled the mysteries of the amygdala. They detailed the role of how the amygdala1 works – its role in anxiety. From this journey I have concluded “Rewire Your Anxious Brain” can serve as a compass, used in navigating the intersection of cognitive-behavioral techniques and the practice of client centered hypnotherapy and here is why.

When speaking to the working of hypnotherapy, I speak of the connection between the conscious mind and the subconscious mind. How it serves as a therapeutic modality allowing the client or individual to change and or modify (personally) their goals through suggestion and metaphor. This is akin to the insights presented in “Rewire Your Anxious Brain”. Where individuals embark on a personal transformative journey of the mind and how information is passed and stored. Including how life experiences play a role in our perceptions and how the Amygdala’s reactions are not logical. Very similar to what we experience and understand about the subconscious mind in hypnotherapy.

Hypnotherapy becomes a complimentary therapeutic modality, as it can seamlessly intertwine the books’ concepts and breathing exercises, guides individuals into a relaxed state. Ultimately to the place where the subconscious mind becomes more amenable to positive suggestions. I believe the practice of hypnotic process is in alignment with the book’s emphasis on reshaping the thought patterns thus addressing the key factors of anxiety.

My spiritual perspective of Hypnotherapy is that of hypnosis being a conduit to the subconscious. And this conduit can become a canvas of, visualization, imagery, and story (metaphor). This perception is very similar to the book’s principal techniques of breath work, diagramming triggers (like parts therapy) are artfully applied. The book emphasizes the role of neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to reorganize itself, and how one can leverage this phenomenon to rewire anxious responses. The role of a trained hypnotherapist is very similar as we work to assist the client to find their trigger (or goal) and to explore ways to transform it.

The book’s insights into the plasticity of the brain, gives us a scientific foundation for understanding how
hypnotherapy can influence and reshape ingrained anxious tendencies at a neural level. For instance, the
authors discuss the importance of repeated, focused attention to create lasting changes in the brain. This mirrors the repetitive and focused nature of setting an anchor or using metaphor, visualization and suggestion used in hypnotherapy sessions. By aligning and intertwining these practices, individuals engaging in both approaches may experience a collaborative effect, reinforcing positive changes initiated through hypnotherapy, with the scientifically supported strategies outlined in the book. Picture this as a collaborative dance between science, hypnotherapy, and the subconscious, orchestrated to break free from the shackles of anxiety.

As I journeyed deeper, the practical exercises and mindfulness techniques laid out by the authors have become welcoming tools to enhance my practice. For example: The use of muscle tension inventory or exploring an exercise of tension vs relaxation can be written into knowledgeable scripts or used as components of parts therapy, guided imagery, or visualization techniques such as the split screen approach. Put into practice those guided through a hypnosis session can reshape their inner narrative, navigating the labyrinth of anxiety with newfound clarity and resilience. Since reading “Rewire Your Anxious Brain” I have witnessed many benefits of this book’s insights.
Enhancing my clients’ understanding of the processes of the conscious and subconscious mind.

  1. Facilitating the integration of the scientific concepts from “Rewire Your Anxious Brain” allows the
    client to better understand how and why they experience what they experience.
  2. Has allowed me to embrace a more comprehensive and empowering approach to anxiety
    management within the framework of integrative healing.
  3. This intertwining or fusion of practices aligns seamlessly with my mission, of promoting self-awareness
    and self-empowerment.
  4. It has allowed me to paint a canvas where mental well-being isn’t just a destination but a
    transformative journey through the realms of consciousness.

To conclude – the central idea of this book revolves around the concept of neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections. Author’s Pittman and Karle explain how anxiety is rooted in the brain’s wiring and offer insights into understanding the biological and psychological factors contributing to anxious thoughts and behaviors.

A key takeaway is the importance of mindfulness, self-awareness, self-care and how it can be employed to reshape neural pathways associated with anxiety. The authors provide many easy-to-follow techniques, including cognitive-behavioral strategies, to interrupt anxious thought patterns and replace them with healthier alternatives. Offering a blend of scientific insights and practical exercises, the book empowers readers, clients, and therapists to take an active role in the process of rewiring anxious brains.

This book has been a great addition to my practices’ approach, to self-empowerment. I can see how integrating the principles from “Rewire Your Anxious Brain” complements my existing practices, allowing me to provide individuals with valuable tools to address the mental health aspect of their overall wellbeing.


Rewire Your Anxious Brain – Catherine M. Pittman, PhD., Elizabeth M. Karle, MLIS
New Harbinger Publications – ISBN: 978-1-62625-113-7

1 Amygdala – https://study.com/academy/lesson/the-amygdala-definition-role-function.html

Blessings: Deirdre

6 Beneficial Grounding and Clearing Techniques for Everyone

In today’s chaotic world and challenging times, individuals are often finding themselves struggling. Being able to use beneficial grounding and clearing techniques will help manage financial, physical, emotional and spiritual challenges such as, emotional overwhelm, feelings of lostness, ungroundedness or even those imposed upon you from the intense ‘outside’ global ongoings. War, famine, hate, persecution to name a few.

Studies have shown us that to be effective in one’s spiritual growth and healing, a practice of being centered, grounded and clear is crucial. It has become imperative for practitioners and individuals to learn techniques that can support a healthy balance of the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies. To be centered (grounded) is a way to protect ourselves against overwhelm, negative draining energies, and other peoples’ ‘stuff’.

These practices, I am about to share, help you to stay present in the moment. For instance, to Ground is similar to having a tether from you and your energy to Mother Earth, and can provide a sense of stability, balance, and protection. Practitioners, in particular, benefit from grounding as it enables them to differentiate between their own energy and that of their clients. The process of Clearing is the letting go of energies that are not your own or that are not suiting your highest purpose at this time, assisting in developing resistant to the energies of overwhelm, and drain. When practiced daily you may find that you have a more focused and clear process of thought.

The following techniques are part of my daily grounding and clearing routines. By walking you through their processes I hope to bring you a moment of empowerment and self-realization.

1: Grounding or Rooting Visualization

This powerful visualization allows you to feel Mother Earth’s stability and support. Before embarking on a challenging task, find a comfortable, quiet space to rest and start this visualization.

Close your eyes, and take in a few deep breaths, directing your attention inward. In this quiet space, visualize or imagine roots sprouting from the base of your spine or the soles of your feet, extending deep into Mother Earth, reaching the core.

Now as you to visualize any excess or foreign energies flowing down allow it to release through these roots, leaving you cleansed and balanced. And when you feel clear, gently draw up the nurturing and stabilizing energy from Mother Earth through your envisioned roots, filling your entire being with this nurturing energy.

This technique sets a clear intention for your day, affirming that you are grounded, protected, and ready to conquer challenges.

2: Physical Grounding

This technique not only establishes a tangible connection with Mother Earth but also encourages a moment of mindful breathing. Practice when feeling overwhelm or out of control to physically ground and bring your awareness into center. Helping you to regain control over the situation.

Begin by standing barefoot on a natural surface, such as grass, soil or sand. As you focus on the sensation of your feet touching the ground, shift your attention to your body, feeling the reassuring weight of your ‘being’ being supported by Mother Earth. Visualize a connection of you and the earth beneath you. Then, breathe, slow rhythmic breaths, visualizing your excess energy releasing, even if you do not know what that may be, into Mother Earth. You may wish to count your breaths: count of 3 in, hold for count of 3, and release for count of 3.

Notice that connection to Mother Earth and the calming energies flowing through you, notice the breath, the flow, to and from Mother Earth, balancing, grounding, and clearing you.

3: Work with Natures Grounding Crystals / Stones

Popular grounding crystals like black tourmaline, hematite, or smoky quartz can be excellent companions for grounding and clearing energies. I have also found using stones such as moss agate, black obsidian and shungite, amplifies these clearing and grounding techniques.

The practice of selecting a grounding crystal or stone varies for each individual. I suggest you hold it in your dominant hand and place this hand against your heart. Notice how you feel or notice if you are being pushed away or pulled forward. Pushing away indicates this crystal may not be ideal for you. Being pulled forward indicates a good connection with its’ energies.

To use the crystal simply hold or place it nearby and invite the grounding energies into your space. You may wish to close your eyes and connect with the crystal, envisioning its grounding properties enveloping you. Continue the visualization as the energy merges seamlessly with your own, imparting balance, stability and grounding.

Finally taking a moment of gratitude to express thanks to the crystal for its invaluable support.

4. Heart-Centered Exercise

This exercise aims to shift your focus from the mentalism’s of the mind and ground you in the heart center, the place of pure love and compassionate energy.

You begin by closing your eyes and drawing a deep relaxing breath. Then while you continue breathing at your normal rhythm, imagine or visualize a radiant ball of energy, platinum or silver-white, hovering weightlessly just above the crown of your head. Slowly, envision this ball descending, gently down through the crown, passing behind your eyes, your nose, your mouth, allowing it to come to rest just above your heart center. Take in a breath and experience the pureness of this platinum ball of energy. Now, gently imagine that your physical eyes are moving into this ball. Through these eyes allow yourself to perceive your surroundings, Notice what you ‘see’ – knowing that you can experience a 360’ view of your world without using your own eyes or moving your head.

Next, allow your physical ears to enter the ball, your sense of hearing. And, notice that it is as though you can truly hear from just over your heart. Listen, what do you hear? 95% of all communication is nonverbal nonphysical, so listen to the subtilties of truth and compassion.

Now, take a moment to imagine your senses of touch, taste, and smell within the platinum ball, experiencing the world through these senses. What do you sense? How does it feel?

Finally, move your mouth into this ball and give it the ability to speak. It is as if your own voice emanates from deep within your chest, just above your heart center. What does this voice of wisdom, purity, love, and compassion have to offer or say from your heart. Now, rest with this for a moment or two until you feel complete, then open your eyes.

5. Clearing the Fields of Energy

Clearing your biofield is recommended daily technique to release and let go of any errant energies that are not serving you. This simple exercise is most powerful when you tune in and allow you intuition to guide your intention and let go.

We begin by you closing your eyes and visualizing or imagining a gentle mist of rain, like a shower of silver droplets descending from a beautiful waterfall. Breathe in as you feel this soft gentle mist as cleansing droplets touching your crown, then expanding into a purifying shower.

Now, visualize the mist descending and gliding off your body, carrying away with it any negativity or external energies. Releasing those which are ready to be released. Even if you do not understand the nature of these energies, allow them to flow effortlessly into Mother Earth.

Breathe in and sense the energy of the sacred feminine principle, allowing you to continue to release and let go, as the mist magnetically pulls any remnant energies out, leaving your cells, molecules, and atoms feeling clear and refreshed.

When you feel complete, you can open your eyes.

6. Clearing the Mind

As with other clearing techniques, clearing the mind is just as important as clearing the body of unneeded or negative energies. Keeping the mind clear of thoughts that are no longer serving you is a beneficial part of letting go.

In this technique I ask you to close your eyes and imagine the image of a comb, similar to that of a sweeping hand. Now with this image in mind gently move or sweep through your thoughts, gently capturing and removing unhelpful thoughts, discordant thinking, doubts, and fears.

The practice of this technique frees your mind from unnecessary clutter we often hold, allowing you to approach your daily life with a clearer perspective. You may wish to repeat this combing action three times as to thoroughly cleanse your mind, of errant thoughts even those thoughts you might not fully understand. And, when you feel complete you may open your eyes.

Final Words

In the end, understanding the importance of grounding and clearing techniques is paramount. These practices are the keys to maintaining balance and being present in the moment. By incorporating one or more of them into your daily routine, you can create a welcoming and nurturing safe space for both you and those around you. The practices empower you to channel healing energy effectively while remaining grounded, centered, and protected. Whether you are preparing for an energy session or simply seeking to enhance your daily life, these techniques are a valuable addition to your toolkit. Remember, it is not only about staying connected to Mother Earth; it is about staying balanced as you connect. Balanced with your inner self and those you aim to help. So, embrace these techniques and explore the transformative power of being rooted in the heart-centered work of Energy Medicine and Energy Psychology.

A PDF gift: Clearing and Grounding Techniques

Blessings Deirdre

Unleashing Your Inner Power: Embark on a Journey to Self-Empowerment

I understand the desire to tap into personal power, growth, and self-discovery, and the search for tools and techniques that can help unleash our true potential. But how do we determine which tools and techniques are right for us? How can they support us? Do they offer transformative experiences?

When I talk to clients about these three powerful modalities—Reiki, Spiritual Healing, and Hypnosis— I discuss with them how each modality can assist in the releasing of limitations, facilitate inner healing, and awaken their natural abilities.

Reiki: Healing Energy for Self-Empowerment

So, what is Reiki – at its core, Reiki focuses on harnessing the healing power of universal life force energy, known as Chi. This energy naturally flows through the practitioner to where it is needed most. I work with clients using gentle touch in various hand positions or no touch depending on.

  • The clients wishes – yes touch is OK or no it is not OK
  • We are working via Zoom – in a different location, city, country

Aa a practitioner I collaborate energetically with the recipient to promote an overall sense of well-being, relaxation, and rejuvenation of the body, mind, and spirit.

I am facilitating the balance of Ki energy by holding the space and helping move stagnant energy, release heavy emotions, and restore energetic harmony from within. A process I believe fosters self-awareness, empowering individuals to cultivate their own profound sense of well-being.

My clients have noticed with regular Reiki sessions how empowering it is to take an active role in their own healing journey.

  • Developing a deeper connection with the body
  • Cultivating mind-body awareness
  • Addressing personal energetic imbalances
  • Understanding one’s capacity to heal
  • Facilitating personal transformation, healing, and positive change

My Reiki Master once stated ‘that it is a remarkable healing modality that unlocks the innate healing power we all carry within, and by embracing the power of Reiki anyone can embark on a personal journey of self-empowerment’ ~ Doug Horne, Spiritual Reiki Master Shaman.

Spiritual Healing – Integrative Chakra Therapy®: Nurturing the Journey of the Soul

When I am asked what is Spiritual healing? I explain that this modality takes a comprehensive approach by encompassing various practices and modalities. Each one interconnects with the deeper levels of our mind, body, and spirit—the essence of our being. It recognizes the interconnectedness of these aspects and acknowledges that imbalances in the spiritual realm can manifest as physical, emotional, or mental ailments in the physical realm.

In the teachings of Spiritual healing, I have learned that it is not limited to any particular religion or belief system. It involves working with our intention, our higher realms of consciousness, and our personal connection to a higher self or “Oneness” to bring about alignment and transformation.

The goal of spiritual healing is to promote a healthy, balanced, and aligned state on a deep, soul level. And, is recognized in various practices from different cultures and traditions. Spiritual healing can be employed by –

  • Working with the energy of the chakras “Integrative Chakra Therapy® a philosophy developed by Dr. Richard Jelusich, aiming to bring forth balance within the 4 architypes of the human being (physical, emotional, mental and spiritual) and to clear the energy bio-fields (aura: physical, astral, causal) bringing forth inner peace, harmony, and balance.
  • Engaging in inner self-reflection, Meditation, Yoga, Breath Work; therapeutic practices to identify and release negative emotions, traumas, limiting beliefs, or patterns that no longer serve well-being. Helping individuals to find their place in the harmony and balance of all things – the present moment.
  • Through invoking the power of focused intention through Prayer and Meditation to tap your higher states of consciousness, receive guidance, and find comfort and support.
  • Utilizing Shamanic Traditions to work with spiritual guides, ancestors, and elemental forces through healing rituals and ceremonies that restore balance and bring harmony Spirit, Mind and Body.

My clients have informed me through the work of mind-body connection; spiritual healing recognizes the influence of our thoughts, our emotions, and beliefs on our well-being. By introducing practices such as:

  • affirmations
  • visualizations
  • guided meditations

Clients have found help in establishing a sense of connection, groundedness, and present-moment awareness. I believe that when a person engages in mindful practices it allows them to tap into self-awareness, reduce anxiety, and find a place of inner peace.

And of course, one can not negate the importance of being connected to Nature. This connection offers a powerful source for personal growth and healing, fostering unity, nurturing empathy, and owning one’s responsibilities. Spending time in nature, appreciating its beauty, and experiencing its serenity can rejuvenate our own energy system, deepen our understanding of ourselves, and enhance our connection, as we become more aware of our role and responsibilities to the larger web of life.

Hypnosis: Unlocking the Power of the Subconscious Mind

Recently I have witnessed just how powerful a tool Hypnosis is. In working with client to help them access their subconscious mind to create positive changes in day-to-day life. Because the role of the subconscious mind is to protect us, it will or may take beliefs, events, situations, habits, memories we have experienced and use them as current life situations even if they are outdated or misinterpreted. Causing for the client at times states of anxiety, fear, pain, and array of other modalities. It is the job of the trained hypnotherapist to help individuals unlock what is the root of their problem and safely work with them in a state of deep relaxation and heightened focus known as hypnosis.

During hypnosis, clients can bypass the critical (conscious) mind and establish a direct connection with the subconscious. And once in this state, the client, while working with the therapist, can identify and reprogram limiting beliefs, release fears and traumas, and cultivate new empowering thought patterns. This process can lead to a dramatic shift in thoughts, emotions, behaviors, improving self-confidence, and bring forth a positive mindset aligned with the clients’ personal goals.

I like to remind my clients that the conscious mind remains active during a hypnosis session, ensuring the safety and ethical integrity of the session. Clients can deepen or lighten their experience and can event down right lie about situations as they are still very much in control even though they are in a hypnotic state. At no time will they be asked to do something inappropriate and of course this means that they can not be forced to do anything they do not wish to do. Hypnosis is a collaboration with the subconscious mind in the post-hypnotic stage to reinforce and integrate positive changes and works best when clients and therapist have a sound positive report built on integrity and honesty.

To embark on a journey of self-empowerment, one needs curiosity, courage, openness, and a willingness to explore new possibilities. The practices of Reiki, Spiritual Healing, and Hypnosis offer unique pathways to unlock our inner power and unleash our true potential. Combining these modalities can create a transformative collaboration, facilitating profound healing, self-discovery, and personal growth.

To embark on a journey of self-empowerment, one needs curiosity, courage, openness, and a willingness to explore new possibilities. The practices of Reiki, Spiritual Healing, and Hypnosis offer unique pathways to unlock our inner power and unleash our true potential. Combining these modalities can create a transformative collaboration, facilitating profound healing, self-discovery, and personal growth.

Blessings Deirdre